As most of you are well aware, I talk a lot about the
newest member of our family in this blog… and
yes… I’m talking about our 62lb Aussie/Great Pyrenees mix dog Fiver. He really is a good dog, faithful companion,
bundle of energy and at times a great listener!
I would have to admit that he is probably the best behaved dog that we
have ever had… especially at his young age.
He is not a runner that wants to bolt out the front door
with the first opportunity that presents itself, as all three of our previous
canine companions were. He follows me
around like a shadow and is very responsive to my verbal commands… except… well, let’s just say that he and
I don’t have the same expectations of his behavior when someone comes to the
front door!
To put it mildly, when someone appears on the other side
of the storm door on our porch he goes bananas!
With the way our house is designed, it is very easy to see anyone coming
as they approach the front door. So by
the time they get to the door Fiver is full of excitement and adrenaline to
greet them. My approach so far has been
to put him on a lease, which he readily accepts and to have him sit by my side…
and all is great until the guest steps inside.
Then Fiver turns into a twisting, rambunctious, very excited with a
desire to jump up and place his paws on their shoulders pooch!
So… as
you can guess, we’re working on adjusting that particular behavior. The funny thing is that he quickly calms down,
becoming gentle and unobtrusive and lays down off to the side of wherever we
are sitting with our guests. When the CNA
comes to assist Piper two days a week, he follows them into the bedroom and
keeps and alert and close eye to make sure that she does everything right for
his favorite human!
Fiver’s guest greeting antics show us the importance of
having the same expectations with others that you are working with in the
accomplishment of an agreed upon goal.
One of the many things I’ve noticed in the journey of Piper’s health since
she began the multitude of tests that she’s endured over the years since 2007,
is that as helpful as they may be, not everyone has the same expectations for
her as we have.
This point came to light again in a conversation just a few
days ago. As I prayed and asked the Lord
for insight concerning the confirmation of what my kids and I have thought
throughout Piper’s and my difficult journey, I began to realize that Piper’s
and my faith and associated expectations should
not and have not been affected by
others who might not be in the same place as we are.
In Ephesians 1:17-18 Paul prays “that the glorious Father, the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, would give
you a spirit of wisdom and revelation as you come to know Christ better. Then you will have deeper insight. You will know the confidence (or more
accurately translated: ‘expectations’)
that he calls you to have and the glorious wealth that God’s people will
inherit.” (God’s Word ©) This verse
seems to confirm the realization that Papa God gave to me as mentioned above.
What jumped out to me as I studied this verse again this
morning was the point that we would have an intimate knowledge of the
expectations that HE called us to have and not those of someone else! At the beginning of our journey Piper and I
had lots of well-meaning people give us their
expectations for the ways that they thought we should precede. But then they were disappointed if not upset when we choose to not place
our confidence in their advice but instead follow what we believed to be HIS directions
and expectations.
Our desire to “seek
first the kingdom of God” (Matthew 6:33 MKJV) has been the standard we
adopted from practically day one of our relationship and we were not about to
deviate from that course of action as we faced what we knew would be the
greatest battle of our lives. I can
still picture Piper and I taking hands in that dorky, well-lived in, old duplex we were living
in in Oklahoma when I came back from work late one night having just received
the call from her doctor advising me on the negative preliminary findings of the
three different brain scans they had run on her.
There were no questions asked by either of us as we knew exactly what we needed to do and went immediately to Papa God in prayer, placing
the situation and Piper’s life completely into His hands. From that point on, our expectations have
been a mirror of what we continue to believe are His as stated in His
Word. (For starters please see: Matthew 6:9-10, 3 John 2, Matthew 8:17, and 1
Peter 2:24…)
Over the roller-coaster years since then, we have learned (at times the hard way) that not
everybody will be in sync with our course of action… even though they may nod
their heads symbolizing their supposed agreement with us when we share our
faith with them. But overshadowing that
lesson is the understanding that when push comes to shove… where they are in
their faith, whether they are in agreement with us or not REALLY DOESN’T MATTER to
the outcome of what WE are believing for!
I’ve come to see that we are not to allow other people’s
expectations and/or differences in their faith as compared to ours affect OUR
confidence in the expectations Papa God has called US to have! Remember… Jesus told the women with the issue
of blood that she had been dealing with for twelve years to “Cheer up daughter! (for) Thy faith has made thee well.” (Matthew 9:22 God's Word ©) He made absolutely no mention of anybody else’s
expectations or faith for her! Her
healing was dependent on and came about because she acted on what she believed
was God’s expectations for her! Besides,
in her case according to Jewish law, she probably would have been arrested and
put away if anyone else knew what she was about to do as it was against the law
to be around others in close physical contact with her illness.
So
my point? Over the years
and especially as of late, I have learned the importance of having people
around us who can lend physical, emotional and spiritual support to Piper and I
in our time of need – BUT - I cannot depend on their faith
and/or expectations to carry us through as it may not be the expectations that
Papa God has called US to have. In other words, the help is great and
greatly appreciated… but when it comes to the final outcome of Piper’s health,
our expectations and corresponding actions of faith… that are firmly based on God’s Word… are our final line of
defense!
Can
you say the same thing?
Have a super weekend, and as you do, keep asking yourself…
“Whose expectations am I expecting to be
confident in today?”
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