I have many vivid memories of my wife taking the time… whatever time that was necessary, to
minister love and grace to our kids.
When I think about the meaning of grace, I many times will picture my 5’
2 1/2’’wife who may not be real large in physical stature but was always about
105 lbs of compassion and Godly grace… usually
all wrapped up in a friendly smile!
I can picture her like it was yesterday when she would be
kneeling down next to one of our children, softly and gently calming their
emotions, building them up when they felt less than positive about themselves or
with something they may have done. I
also recall the many times she would slip her little hand around my upper arm
just as I would be heading off to talk with one of our kids, give me that
killer-sweet smile and gently remind me to include a liberal involvement of God’s
grace in the upcoming conversation.
In this blog I’ve talked about the many lessons that I have
learned in life, and especially within the last eleven years as we’ve been
involved in the fight for my Piper’s health… but I think the greatest lesson
has been centered on my increasingly personal knowledge of God’s love and
grace. I can’t help but go back to Paul’s
words in Ephesians 3:19 where he talks about the importance of each of us
having an intimate, experiential “knowing”
of God’s love which takes us far
beyond the limits of our own understanding and thereby enables us to be filled
with more and more of God. (personally paraphrased from Ephesians 3:19 –
God’s Word ©) With that word “knowing” likened in the original Greek to
the intimacy that is shared between a husband and wife.
I’ve had some pretty tough experiences when we returned
home to California after attending Bible College where I got a very personal
look into what it is like to be the target of words and actions that are far
from God’s grace. I would have to say
that I had NEVER gone through
anything like that before… or since that experience.
Through it all I came into a clear understanding of what
the Lord told Paul when he asked Him to help him through the persecutions he
seemed to be facing every time he turned around! Paul related the incident writing, “And He said to me, My grace is sufficient
for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore I will
rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may overshadow me.” (2 Corinthians 12:9 MKJV)
At one of the lowest points in my life, I turned to Papa
God and He began to continually and relentlessly pour out His love and grace
on Piper and me. I can honestly say that
while I have always had an intensely close relationship with my wife, I never
even knew that I could have a similar relationship with God… until I had no one
to turn to for comfort, encouragement and strength… but Him!
I discovered during a teaching on God’s will for healing
that we were listening to yesterday afternoon, that the word “POWER” in this verse comes from the
Greek word “dunamis” which specifically speaks of “miraculous power and implies a miracle
itself” (Strong’s) Do
you get the impact of that statement?
God was telling Paul in Bible times and to us today, that when we are
weak, He is strong and when we put our trust in Him, we have EVERY
RIGHT to EXPECT A MIRACLE!
When it may seem like everything and everyone around you is
against and our abandoning you because of wrongs that they may think you’ve
done, His grace shines like the bright morning star in the midnight skies… and believe me… that is exactly what His
grace has felt like to me over these last few years! He doesn’t criticize, complain or pass along
false stories about you. Like Piper, He
kneels down beside you, takes your hand in His and simply loves on you!
YES… His GRACE
is sufficient for you and me!
Have a great rest of the week, and as you do, keep asking yourself… “How much am I expecting His GRACE for me today!”
So excellent,Jim. I have gone through a time this past 2 years that caused me such personal pain, that I didn't know where the tears could still be coming.
ReplyDeleteJust when a "love" was pulled away from me, that I had known since I was a toddler, my heart broke in a manner I didnt know could happen. Through a new friend, I relealized that God is love and in Him is NO DARKNESS. Though I was devastated and had to learn how to forgive one that saw no wrong in the matter, I was reminded that God's love for the one as well as God's love for me were still unchanged. I was encouraged to not look to the flesh of said one, but to love as I am loved. Love never fails. I have learned that I am not called to or qualified to make judgement on another based on how or if I agree with their life's choices or how they reflect on me. That removed a major load to allow my heart, mind, life to become taller straighter. Love how God loves? What a novel idea! It was then explained to me that it was through the union of Father, Son, Spirit that every human living now or ever will live created who we are (Not just our parents passion). Even our breath is gifted to each of us. This person breathes and is loved by God regardless of any actions to me or any actions at all.
My gavel is now retired and I breathe easier than ever. We can not escape the all encompassing love of Abba. He was with Jesus on the cross reconciling the world, the entire world to Himself. Also realizing that we all have been known and loved from before the foundation of the world,this causes us to be as He is in this world. I am in Him, He is in me, the father and Jesus are one, that means we are in "onness" in a bigger way than we have been taught. What can separate us from the love of God? The list is big, but it means "nothing" can separate
So, I have learned to forgive and love as I am forgiven and loved. I am a better husband, Dad and neighbor.this is a bit Too long, but I wanted to respond. G. Matthews