One of the
reasons we were drawn to this house, besides its beautiful and serene country
setting near to the convinces of two towns, a hospital and within an hour’s
drive to Piper’s various doctors as well as being in fairly close proximity to our
oldest daughter and her husband, was the large lot and gardening opportunities
that it presented to us.
The lot is
kind of unique in its location near the rear of the neighborhood with two sides
backing up to forested areas. Another
special quality was that although the home was fifteen years old when we
purchased it, the previous two owners had not really done much in the way of landscaping,
except for a nice lawn surrounding the house, a few plants and shrubs in the
front flowerbed and a 4ft fence enclosing the backyard.
For us, this
piece of heaven was just what the doctor ordered! With a love for gardening and yard work
deeply embedded in my DNA, this property had our names written all over
it! I realized a few years back that my
love for all kinds of yard work (well…
maybe not raking leaves) was also a way for me to burn away the stresses of
life and rejuvenate my spirit, soul and body!
As I look
over our ¾ of an acre lot, I see a vast multitude of landscaping possibilities,
highly accenting fruit trees, a large vegetable garden, cactus garden (love prickly pears!) and beautiful
flowers artistically placed around the home.
But then reality hits home and I realize that there is only one of us to
cultivate, care for, harvest and eat the garden products! So I have to keep reminding myself to scale
back my plans. I would like to stay here
for a while and at my age, it is important to think of the care of whatever I add to
the yard in mind!
One of the
simple things within the sphere of yard care that I have always found pleasure
in is mowing the lawn… weird huh? But with the right tools and attitude, I find
it quite relaxing and thoroughly enjoy the results of a well-cared for lawn and
yard! Well… I put that theory to work
over the last two days as I mowed and trimmed the front and back lawns. Now granted the riding mower makes relatively
quick work of the mowing and the gas powered string trimmer and blower help immensely
as well!
But you know… I was feeling pretty emotionally and
physically stretched this week and yardwork did not have its usual appeal to
me. So
what did I do? You guessed it… I
dragged myself out to the shed, gassed up the tools and away I went… two days in a row! And whoosh… It worked like a charm! As I
sat upon my bright red riding mower and looked over this beautiful piece of
heaven that I firmly believe the Lord had in mind for us when it was built, the
strain, pain, worries and cares of my wife’s situation seem to vanish amongst
the trees bursting out with their spring greenery and the deep blue skies
dotted with huge white puffy clouds! Yes it worked again!
I knew that
if I got out there and started performing the yard chores that I would feel
better… because that’s one of the ways that the Lord works in me! But I’ve also learned (the hard way most times…) that with everything going on that
demands my 24/7 attention, that I can’t over do it! So instead of trying to do everything in one
day and then regret it later in the evening when exhaustion sets in, I knew to
spread out the various tasks involved in mowing and trimming the yard into a
two or three day task. That wisdom also
gives more opportunities for Piper, the dog and I to be outside and enjoy
nature for extended periods of time!
Working with
the land not only energizes my physical body, but it renews my spirit-man,
bolsters my resolve and re-focuses my vision off from the physical
circumstances and back onto the Word of God and His truth concerning our
needs. Where I might be in the place of gradually
cracking open the door to doubt and unbelief, by the time I turn the key and
switch off the mower, scriptures like those found in Mark 5:36 when Jesus
immediately turned to Jarius after some of his workers came to report the death
of his beloved daughter, looked him in the eye and with great love and
conviction spoke unto him: “Be not
afraid, only believe” come alive to me again!
So yeah… We’ve got a good sized piece of land
out here, but no, it is not too much for me to handle… it is exactly what the
good Lord knew that I needed to work through and accomplish the task set before
me in carrying for my wonderful wife in her time of greatest need. Isn’t
God good!
What are your stress-relievers?
What activities cause you to refocus your energies and commitment to
your faith in the Word of God? What
activities lift you from the grasps of fear and bring you back into a firm
belief in the love of God and His Word working on your behalf? Let me
know! I’d love to hear of all the
various and unique ways that God works through different folks.
Have a great
weekend! We’re supposed to have
scattered thunderstorms for the next few days, although it is warm and sunny
right now. Hopefully you’ll get some
opportunities to relieve any stress and refocus on the truth of God’s Word… and
as you do, keep asking yourself… “How am
I expecting to become stress-free today?”
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