A few years ago when we were living in a community of
cluster homes back in California, I was concerned that our dog’s barking might
be disturbing to our neighbors. In
discussing this with one of our daughters one day, she told me of the bark
alarm that they had purchased due to the same concern over their two dogs. They had actually received a few complaints
but since they got the alarm everybody seemed to be happy. So with that in mind I also bought a “Bark Free” system. The alarm is activated by the dog’s bark and
has two operating modes. One is silent
to humans and the other lowers the tone emitted so as to be heard by people.
I thought about the doggie anti-barking alarm this morning
as I meditated once more on Philippians 4:7.
The idea of a sound that can be heard by the dog’s sharper hearing while
being quiet to people caught my attention.
Philippians 4:7 talks about “God’s
peace, which is far beyond human understanding (which) will keep your hearts
and minds safe in (your) union with Christ Jesus.” (Good News Bible) The King James Bible defines God’s peace as
something that “passeth understanding.” For some reason I felt led to look up the
Greek inference of “passeth” and in
doing so discovered an interesting line of thought.
Both Thayer’s and Strong’s say that it actually means “to hold oneself above.” What stood out to me was the idea that this
is something that we the believers need to do.
It seems that the Apostle Paul is telling us that we have the responsibility
to keep our minds free from the confines of our natural understanding and up in
the realm of His unlimited, boundless possibilities and might!
It also gave me an instant revelation to why two people can
hear the exact same thing and come away with two completely different
conclusions. It also explained how some
individuals only hear certain parts of a conversation. Someone who is stuck within the walls of
their natural understanding has nothing to relate to the spiritual aspects that
are shared and can easily forget that part of the conversation. I’ve had that happen to me, have you?
There have been times when discussing a former conversation
with another person that I’ll scratch my head and think either, that’s not all that I said, or that’s not at
all what I meant. Sound familiar? My next thought was wondering what the
solution was. My first response was to
rationalize that the best thing to do was to be very selective of my words and
just not go into certain subjects… just like I did with some relatives back in
California… and in looking back, I can see that this approach really did
nothing to help the situation as the uncomfortable discussions with them still
continue and nothing seems to have changed!
As I prayed about this, I began to hear a different approach
coming from inside me. I felt the Lord
saying to be “gentle and kind” (ie;
Philippians 4:5 ERV) and take the time to explain without any perceived criticism,
complaint or smugness on my behalf! Then
He reminded me of our new Pastor’s and how they explained a few spiritual
doctrines a couple of Sunday’s ago. In
their discussions they always took the time to gently and clearly explain the what, why’s and how’s, not taking for granted that everyone was necessarily on the
same page with them. They wanted to
assure that everyone in the congregation was understanding what they were
trying to convey.
So I learned something important this morning and set a new
resolve to work by clarifying where I am coming from when I make statements,
and not just assume that whoever I am talking with has the same point of
reference. Does that make any sense to
you? This may take a little more time
and patience, but it will definitely help to keep peace and rest with everyone involved
in our conversations each day. And even
if others do not agree with you, at least they will have a greater understanding
of why you said what you did. This type
of conversation closes the communication loop and leads to more productive and
peaceful relationships.
So give it a try this
week. Take a moment or two extra and
make an effort to clearly define what you mean when you speak with others. I think that this would fit into the plan of Godly
love and it may also open up a whole new realm of possibilities to others and
give them a desire to seek the things that are above the natural level of one’s
understanding. Have a great week. Stay in tune and within the realm of His
boundless understanding… and keep asking yourself… “What or Whose level of understanding am I keeping myself in today?”
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