As a child growing up in my parent’s home, I often times noticed how emotional my dad could be in certain situations. It didn’t necessarily happen a lot, but there were definite events that brought him to open tears… and I clearly remember thinking that it wasn’t a very manly response and that I would never react in similar ways when I became an adult.
Well… you most likely know what I am going to
say next! And yes… I have
become just like my father and if anything… probably more so! I think the final straw came very early on in
Piper’s journey with Alzheimer’s, when an older gentleman who had recently lost
his wife to a long-term battle with the disease, gave me a bit of heartfelt
wisdom for what was ahead for me.
He said that the
first thing that I needed to do was to lose all my pride
because I was going to have to face things and do things that I’d never imagine
being called upon to do… and that my wife’s comfort was the ONLY
thing that mattered… and you know? He
was absolutely RIGHT!
One of those “things”
that I had to deal with and work on, was giving my emotions an outlet as my
life was turned totally upside down. So,
while I’d find myself keeping a controlled and intuitive demeanor in the
various doctor’s offices and emergency rooms we frequented, the tears would
gush forth when we made it back to the privacy of our car in the building’s
parking lot.
After she moved
on to her new home in heaven, little memories of her would set my tears loose just
about anywhere… like while in the grocery store, while driving down the road or
when walking the dog through the neighborhood.
But more recently, the emotional responses, which are steeped in the
experience of what we went through, extend to needs I see unfolding in the
lives of not only people I personally know and care for, but also to total
strangers that I see on a daily basis that are struggling with life’s realities.
At times I get emotionally
confused when these people… many who profess the Christian faith…
so easily fall into worry, fear and temptation instead of considering
the promises for their situations that are clearly available to them throughout
the Word of God. Then the good Lord will
usually deal kindly with me by patiently reminding me that I
may not know the whole picture.
Not everyone
has the same foundational background of faith that I may have. Not everyone had a spouse that made living
Christianity the most highly EXPECTANT and exciting
activity in their world… because everyone is different. We all come from a different
family and church-going experience or even believe the Bible differently… or…
believe in God at all!
So
lately… I have been
asking the Lord… A LOT… for wisdom to know the simplest
and most practical way to help others turn to God in their times of
need. Then, earlier
in the week, I was led to one of my favorite books of the Bible and found a portion
of the scriptures, that in modern day English, encourages us by saying,
“So, if you're serious about
living this new resurrection life with Christ, act like it. Pursue the things
over which Christ presides. Don't shuffle along, eyes to the ground,
absorbed with the things right in front of you. Look up, and be
alert to what is going on around Christ— (for) that's where the
action is. (& seek
to) SEE THINGS from His perspective.” (Colossians
3:1-2 / The Message)
There is a rich
vein of revelation and/or informational GOLD in Paul’s wisdom that
is unearthed in these verses, but for now… let’s just concentrate on the
thought of looking up and being alert to where the REAL ACTION IS…
around Christ and the TRUTH of His Word!
And with that
information we have the answer to my emotionally charged, heart-felt question. Like with a miner living in the northern
Sierras of California in the 1850’s, all one had to do to help them find the
motherload of gold, was to give them details concerning the location of the rich
vein hidden deep within the mountain… and likewise… for the one
given to anxiety, worry and fear in this life, their answer is
found in the rich veins of Godly gold as discovered and picked out of the Word
of God.
But… how do we get them turned on to God’s
reality? Well… that’s simple… by building
up their faith in God and in the tangible reality of
His Word working in their lives!
And just
how do we do that? By sharing the faith-giving Word of God with
those who are struggling… by precept, practical understanding and
most importantly… by personal example. After all… Romans 10:17 teaches us
that,
“faith comes by hearing, and
hearing by the word of God.” (EMTV)
I like how one
Evangelist whom I’ve met and have attended many of his meetings through the
years, practically explained this verse by saying that… ‘Faith comes by hearing
and hearing and hearing the Word of God!’
In other
words, it doesn’t
necessarily happen overnight, but is going to take some dedication, commitment
and repeated personal effort… but OH!... the resulting peace and wisdom that comes
when one chooses to focus their attention upward… to the place where the ACTION
of Christ prevails… is well worth the effort! Every time we speak out the Word… it works to
BUILD FAITH in the ears… and heart… of those who are hearing it… which includes
the speaker as well!
And like my
mother always used to say… “Everything in moderation!” Sharing the Word and its faith-building
properties takes time, patience and gentle understanding of the one you are
sharing with!
And of
course, it also
means that the one sharing the Word needs to know what they are talking about. It is pretty easy to see when someone who is
talking to you knows little to nothing about what they are wanting you to
understand. So… all of it
begins with YOU and ME! The first order of events should be to learn
and live our verses above from Colossians 3:1-2 (verse 3 also helps to bring
Paul’s lesson all together for the student of the Word).
What do you
think about all that? For me…
it is just learning to share my EXCITING and HIGHLY EXPECTANT
FAITH with people in need!
How about you?
Have a terrific
week! I was watching a local weather
forecast last night and it looks like we have a real potpourri of weather this
week. We are currently under a Heat
Advisory but have the possibility of severe thunderstorms tomorrow… with
more heat and rain potential after that! I guess it continues to be the welcome to the EXCITING
Tennessee life for me!