With all the Biblical research I’ve been doing, the blog posts I’ve written, the many teaching sessions I’ve given over the years, and the practical personal experiences I’ve had as a purveyor of CHEERFULNESS… I suddenly had the thought:
“Is there a downside to
CHEERFULNESS?”
And to be perfectly honest… it didn’t take me much time to
come up with a clear and distinct answer:
“YES!”
But… it is not what you might think! The downside is not caused from any potential
personal side-effects of a CHEERFUL heart and/or disposition, but
from the potential negative responses that one might get from individuals on
the receiving end of our CHEERULNESS… especially in the midst
of difficult and trying situations.
One thing that I have learned throughout my life, is that
an attitude of CHEERFULNESS tends to carry a certain SCENT
along with it. It is a FRAGRANCE
that seeps into the life of the individual who has surrendered to its calling…
in all that they think, do and say. As a Christian, it is a FRAGRANCE
that flows from the inside out.
I’ve often said that my late wife Piper’s beautiful looks
and engaging personality, along with her charming, peaceful and encouraging
demeanor, was simply a reflection of what was inside of her. And yes, while I believe that she had some
inherent natural gifting in that area, it was greatly enhanced through a life
time of diligent study and practice of the principles and promises in the Word
of God, which served to enrich and magnify those qualities… and delightfully
age the sweet FRAGRANCE that emanated from her.
2 Corinthians 2:14-15 in the Moffatt translations tells us
that,
“Wherever I go, thank God,
He makes my life a constant pageant of triumph in Christ, diffusing the PERFUME
of His knowledge everywhere by me. I
live for God as the FRAGRANCE of Christ breathed alike on those who are being
saved and on those who are perishing, to the one a deadly FRAGRANCE that makes
for death, to the other a vital FRAGRANCE that makes for life.”
To most individuals the FRAGRANCE of CHEERFULNESS
is a sweet aroma that tends to draw people to its source. But there are some to whom the FRAGRANCE
of CHEERULNESS is received as a repulsive stench and an affront to
them. In my experience in both the
secular and sacred worlds, this is the normal response of people who are
dealing with some aspects of fear in their lives.
In many cases, it is a response that is not only manifested
in disagreement with the CHEERFUL one, but also in words and
actions that attack the CHEER-giver’s personal
character. I saw that exemplified in my
own life experiences in the past, as well as in the present when I looked at
the headline news this morning. As I
scrolled down the first page, I noticed at least a half a dozen headlines where
individuals in the new political party in power in the House of Representatives,
were not only criticized for their rightwing political beliefs, but were done
so with vivid personal character assassination.
So yes! There are times when those of us who CHOOSE
to live with a CHEERFUL heart, that stems from our overriding
trust in the truth of God, in the power of His Word and in the moral excellence
of His ways, may be rebuked by those who are personally challenged by our JOY-FILLED,
CALM and hard-to-resist CHEERFUL personalities… that are
especially highlighted in the midst of trying times.
People in fear want us CHEERFUL folks to take
the counsel of their fear and be adversely affected by it! But don’t be moved by their negative and
sometimes stinging words or actions.
Remember that you have chosen to be CHEERFUL over the long
haul! The Biblical book of Philippians
is chocked full of verses where the Apostle Paul commemorated the church there
for the way they stood,
“shoulder to shoulder for
the faith of the Glad-tidings” and of how happy he was to know “that you are
not cowed one whit by your adversaries.”*
And Sooo… (As
one of Piper’s and my Sociology Professors in Junior College would always say
as he droned on and rocked back and forth on his lectern):
“Owner Beware!”
Although most will… Not everyone will respond to your CHEERFULNESS
in a positive manner. And if they do
so… stay CALM, stay POSITIVE and keep a gentle SMILE
on your face. Remember that you’re CHEERFUL
because you are trusting in the Lord to intercede on your behalf for whatever
stand of faith you are holding and expressing positive and trusting CHEERFULNESS
for!! The fear you’re facing will either
run away or yield to the over-powering FRAGRANCE of Godly CHEERFULNESS
that is wafting through the air from you!
Have a terrific rest of your week! We got a deluge of heavy rain, complete with
thunder and lightning this morning and then by noon it was sunny and 60 degrees
(albeit with a cold wind though…)! Keep
EXPECTING God’s BEST and let His sweet FRAGRANCE
of CHEERFULNESS flow freely from you!
*Philippians 1:27-28 – “The
Letters of St. Paul to Seven Churches and three Friends with the Letter to the
Hebrews”
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