I was thinking this morning when I was helping
my wife to get up for the day, of how much music has influenced our lives over
the years. I was raised in an atmosphere
of singing, piano playing and music styles ranging from classical Mario Alonzo,
to famous Broadway musicals, to the crooners like Bing Crosby, Tony Bennett,
Perry Como and of course, my Mom’s high school heart-throb Frank Sinatra to the
Big Bands from the 1940’s all the way to the Beatles! My Mom loved to sing and sang in the acclaimed
St Eugene’s Cathedral Choir for many years.
In high school she also sang in a popular trio. I have many precious memories of her sitting
at her piano playing older tunes, Christmas Carols, or music that their Choir
was going to perform.
Piper, on the other hand, grew up in the world
of church hymns and contemporary Christian folk music. Her Mom had a beautiful voice and sang solos at
church on Sunday’s and at special church functions. She also sang for groups around town and at
times added drama productions to her presentations. As our kids were growing up she even recorded
a children’s album with many songs that she had personally written.
Piper’s family were also regulars, along with
her maternal grandmother in the First Baptist Church Choir. If I remember the story right, Piper’s paternal
grandmother was the real instigator and force behind Piper’s and her sister’s
years of piano lessons which started for Piper when she was around six. Piper would have me in stitches as she would regale
me with wild stories of her grandmother driving them to lessons in a nearby
town in her huge Pontiac Bonneville wagon, speeding around the sharp
turns on the back-country roads that she took, bumping over things in the
roadway and barely missing wildlife (and
other vehicles…) that had strayed into her path!
One of Piper’s most coveted possessions has
been the beautiful Baldwin Acrosonic piano that her Dad’s mother had given to
her through her will after she passed one week before our wedding. And as you can imagine, that piano played an integral
part of our family’s life! Piper taught
all our kids how to play piano on it, would sit down on various occasions and
play music ranging from the old church hymns, to the contemporary worship songs
we sang in church to the classical music in which she was originally trained. I’ve mentioned in many posts of how she would
surprise me on some of my birthdays by playing a new classical piece that she learned
and practiced while I was off at work.
So yeah, music and singing has been a central
part of Piper’s and my lives that we’ve joyfully passed on to our kids. In fact, I was again reminded of this when
Face-timing with our youngest son yesterday afternoon. He was telling me of the old pipe organ that
is built into the structure of the smaller chapel building at the new church in
Oklahoma City that they are now calling home.
As he was describing its unique details that had caught his attention, I
found myself going back in time when Piper and I produced a Rock Opera at her
Baptist church in the early 1970’s.
We had put together a band with friends from
our high school days (and the band I had
been a part of since junior high) with lead and rhythm guitars, bass, drums
and Piper on the piano… except for one of
the old hymns we sang when Piper stood up and switched over to the beautiful
organ the church had. After the
first performance, many different individuals who had known Piper for years
came up to us expressing surprise and delight that Piper could also play the
organ!
Music has been shown to play a strong role in the
treatment of many diseases including mind altering sicknesses like Alzheimer’s.
Over the last ten years I have seen
Piper become more alert and animate when she became aware of certain songs or
musical styles playing in our home or car.
One time while driving in the car and listening to the local Classical
radio station, she suddenly raised her hands at the crescendo of the song and
moved her arms in perfect cadence to the music and acted as through she was
directing the orchestra!
While studying my Bible this morning I came
across a different translation of Psalm 40:3 that really seemed to hit just the
right spot for what I had been thinking about earlier when helping Piper. While the God’s Word © version follows the
more traditional translation of the verse saying: “He placed a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God. Many
will see this and worship. They will trust the LORD,” The Message
modern paraphrase paints a vivid landscape in one’s mind by declaring: “He taught me how to sing the latest
God-song, a praise-song to our God. More and more people are seeing this: they enter the mystery, abandoning
themselves to GOD.”
The thought of one entering into praise and
worship in song to the Lord and in doing so abandon themselves to Him said it
all! And as I meditated on those
artistic words, I nodded my head in agreement thinking that sacred music has always
carried Piper and I away into another world… the world of His presence! For us it has consistently been a place where
the troubles and tribulations of life seem to melt away. When singing unto Him the worst happening to
us at any given moment pales under the glow of His presence and the power of His
Word that we are offering up to Him.
When I sing simple praise and worship songs unto Him as I begin Piper’s
day, I no longer see how the symptoms of this awful disease have devastated her
once strong, fit and beautiful body.
When I am lost in abandonment within His
Presence I only see her as God and His Word see her, whole and complete and lacking
nothing! (See Matthew 9:22 and I
Peter 2:24) When in His presence in
song, I am filled with a strong sense of God’s best for my wife and I. While lost in His presence in song, I am
filled to overflowing with His expectations, His strength, His joy and most of
all His peace. When lost in abandonment
within His presence in musical praise and worship unto Him, I hear His plans
and directions for Piper and I and feel the personal confidence building up in
me to press forward against the worldly hopelessness that continually bombards us
and fulfil His will for us.
When lost in abandonment in song unto to Him, I
become a living and breathing embodiment to everyone around me that “With men this is impossible; but with God
all things are possible.” (Matthew 19:26 KJV)
So yeah… that’s why His songs
of praise and worship have always been a central part of who Piper Kaye Berruto
and James Joseph Berruto are! You know
what they say… “If it ain’t broke, don’t
fix it" So, we’ll keep up the foundation of that
which was instilled in each of us since our childhoods.
We’ve passed that foundation on to our kids and
now… We’re passing it on to you! So,
what do you say? Ready to be carried away? ♫
Have a great week ahead, and as you do, keep
asking yourself… “Am I really expecting
to allow myself to be carried away in abandonment into His presence?
I remember Carmelita singing at our church growing up. She always had such a beautiful voice. I also remember Kim and Piper also singing at the church. Gone are the days of a choir at New Vintage, but music continues to be a very important part of the worship. Check out Dustin Saylor from New Vintage. He is a very inspirational singer and song writer. I know he has some tunes in iTunes (sounds funny), but I think you will like them. I even played some at my mom's memorial when making a slide show to show at church.
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