The greatest thing that I have had to deal with… on a daily basis… over the last ten… or to be more accurate, I would really have to
say thirteen years… with the attack upon my beautiful wife’s health is FEAR! I add the extra three years as I can clearly
recall being concerned about the little changes in Piper’s physical features
that were becoming evident to me while on our 30th Anniversary
vacation week back in 2005.
These things may not have been noticeable to most others,
but as someone who had spent a majority of his time since High School looking
at this particular woman, the little changes, the loss of weight, the tension
lines around her eyes and the subtle but definite change in that unmistakable
gleam that has always radiated from her eyes were quite visible. As time went on the changes became more
outstanding followed by some chilling negative reactions that required
immediate medical attention.
Throughout each and everyone of these changes, the
immediate reaction that I encountered was FEAR. Over the years in Piper’s and my Christian
walk we learned a lot about this overwhelming and most employed tool of the
devil called FEAR… But when push-came-to-shove
in this… the most difficult situation that I have ever been faced with… it
looked like I still had a lot to learn!
One of the very first scriptures that I ever had some
detailed teaching on and memorized was from 2 Timothy 1:7. It was on the occasion of the first Jr High
Snow camp up in the Sierra Nevada mountains that we took our youth group to
back in 1976 when the four Youth Pastors spoke on the four major emphasis
points of this verse… FEAR, power, love and a sound
mind. And in the ensuing years I
have regularly gone back to that verse only to discover new layers of
understanding.
Needless to say, this scripture has been one of the foundational sections of the Word that has helped Piper and I to survive the
everchanging events surrounding the attack of Alzheimer’s in her. From the very beginning I have been alerted
to the presence and power of FEAR whenever something has happened
to Piper. I have to say though… for some
reason… maybe it’s just something rebellious in me or the years of pumping the
Word into me, that when I am personally attacked with an emotion of FEAR
or sense it in someone I may be with, something always tends to rise up in me
and I instantly find myself wanting to rebel against that evil emotion… and to
be honest… sometimes I also want to rebel against the person allowing FEAR to be expressed through them.
What I have learned about is the awful responses that come
to and through someone when they yield to FEAR. This tool of the evil one makes people say
and do all kinds of crazy, unthinkable and insensitive things that many times
result in false accusations that come from the incorrect scenarios that FEAR
constructs in their minds. And believe
me… it is very difficult to walk in love when people around you “loose self-control” (Proverbs 29:18
ERV). It becomes painfully obvious that they’ve
lost sight of the peace, love, wisdom and joy in the midst of trying times that
can only come through a presently active faith in God and His Word.
What I’ve come to learn is that I have to IMMEDIATELY slam the door shut to any
and every approach of fear in my life… on
a daily basis! My experience has
been that any allowance given to FEAR when emergency situations arise
within my wife, will result in the IMMEDIATE
reactions of anger, hopelessness, confusion and distraction from attending to the
physical and spiritual medical responses that Piper might need at that particular
moment and situation. As far as I am
concerned… FEAR has NO PLACE in
our home!
With all this going on in my own life and my need to daily
deal with FEAR, I have become very sensitive to the onslaught of FEAR
around me wherever I go and in whatever I see including the different events reported
on the news of things happening around the world! Those same reactions to FEAR of anger,
hopelessness, confusion and distraction from the truth are demonstrated in many
people almost every time we have a major event around the globe. If it wasn’t so sad, I could almost laugh
when folks get so taken in with FEAR that they begin to say and do
things that if you really took a moment to think about it… don’t make lot of sense!
In my daily activities alone at home with my wife, I find
it imperative to my physical health, emotional stability and most importantly to
my faith in order to stand firm against any and all attacks of FEAR. I’ve yielded to it a few times, but thank
God, have quickly realized that the anger, sense of hopelessness, confusion and
the resulting tangible lack of common sense and wisdom quickly blurred the
directions that I could sense God wanting to lead me with for that particular
situation… many of which I had never experienced before. (I did
put a nice sized dent in the wall at our last apartment… which did nothing for
the situation except give me a sore hand and a wall to repair!)
I freely admit, that even with all the volumes of reading that
I have done and the multitude of conversations that I have had with medical
professionals concerning the attack of Alzheimer’s on Piper, that I was NEVER
prepared for all that has and continues to happen with her. The changes in her are heart-breaking, life-challenging
and at times on the verge of being down-right scary! (I was
telling our daughter the other day that I finally understand what it feels like
to experience heart-break as your heart physically feels at times like it is
actually being torn apart inside of you!)
With all of that going on… I CANNOT take the chance of yielding ANYTHING to FEAR! I need to keep a level head, stay in peace
and continue to be sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit. It’s imperative that I slam that door of FEAR
closed before I allow any of it to get on or in me!
And
you know… even though you may not be going through exactly what I
am, I’m sure that you have other important battles that call on you to also IMMEDITELY slam shut the door of FEAR
in your life! Is that true?
Don’t allow FEAR to have any kind of a foothold
in your life. Instead keep a firm grasp
on your faith by continually filling yourself with His victorious Word of
promise to you! I would suggest that you
memorize 2 Corinthians 2:14 and to shout it to any and all attacks of FEAR
by boldly declaring: “Now - When?
NOW, in your current
situation and need! - thanks be unto God, which always causeth us to triumph in Christ, and
maketh manifest the savour of his knowledge by us in every place.” (KJV)
And also be comforted in the knowledge of His promise to
you that He “hath not given us the spirit
of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” (KJV) Then
resist the attack of FEAR and walk forth in the Godly
characteristics that he has given you of His Power to overcome ANY
situation, His Love that guides and gives you peace, and an uncanny Soundness
of Mind that enables you to make the right decisions at the right time!
Have a great rest of the week, and as you do, keep asking
yourself… “Am I expecting to NOT allow
any FEAR to have ANY part of my life
today?”
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